tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post4913872121589022391..comments2023-10-02T16:23:40.035+01:00Comments on Just Me: 13 yearsThe Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04550480429586819194noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-35360773610575196752014-11-09T20:16:59.185+00:002014-11-09T20:16:59.185+00:00Wow, just read this...this is so sad, I'm so s...Wow, just read this...this is so sad, I'm so sorry. I didn't realise. I feel like my last message was rather flippant now! What a total shock. I hope you are getting by okay. It sucks! I really know how it feels...it has taken me ages to put my last serious relationship behind me and its aftermath effects and that was 5 years ago...all I can say is...time heals and once you do move on it is okay. I am even kind of protective of my singledom these days...though it would be nice to have someone sometimes. I hope he regrets it. He doesn't deserve you and the way he handled it was pretty cowardly I have to say...and deceitful. You deserve better. It is such a shame but I guess the thing is to try and be positive...pah everything I write sounds cliche and useless...Just big hug I suppose...and hang in there. xxxThe Curious Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16920550974303475865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-40396098007861166712014-10-17T22:40:23.462+01:002014-10-17T22:40:23.462+01:00Shit. I am so sorry. Horrible horrible. Huge hugs ...Shit. I am so sorry. Horrible horrible. Huge hugs and positive thoughts. xNose_in_a_bookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07154323912093068113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-63083237332773219822014-10-07T23:55:19.551+01:002014-10-07T23:55:19.551+01:00It's like having your legs kicked out from und...It's like having your legs kicked out from under you, as you slam down on the floor you know it's going to hurt but that fact that someone who said they loved you could make that happen just stuns you. ((((hugs)))) Be kind to yourself and don't put time limits on what and when you should be 'feeling' things.Tazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13575542198843990599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-56702286008240387152014-10-07T10:59:59.301+01:002014-10-07T10:59:59.301+01:00I really don't know what I can say, I'm so...I really don't know what I can say, I'm so shocked. He's a shit and you deserved a better ending or for it to not end at all. I say Team Norbury needs to re-unite for a weekend of good food and reading xGemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335585461822153232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-55243349949667409712014-10-06T14:41:33.826+01:002014-10-06T14:41:33.826+01:00I've been pretty non-existent in the blog read...I've been pretty non-existent in the blog reading world so have only just read this now, but you know my feelings on it all already, I think. Always at the end of the phone and not really that far away if you ever need me x charhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01424341312136077664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-5047819398289563192014-10-01T19:59:55.693+01:002014-10-01T19:59:55.693+01:00PS, I just found your twitter too and loved your l...PS, I just found your twitter too and loved your little Tractor. It totally looks like one, a John Deere too I reckon! Love it.Louisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16043065727770116407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-5509532691254832002014-10-01T19:59:04.677+01:002014-10-01T19:59:04.677+01:00What a shock. I can't believe someone would do...What a shock. I can't believe someone would do that - without a word, no talk, no explanation. I know my comment is pointless (especially I've really just been a lurker here) and nothing I say will make you feel any better, but thought I'd just drop in a comment to say that is absolutely shit, what an awful thing he did to you - you deserve better. Looks like you have lots of support from your bloggy friends. Thinking of you.Louisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16043065727770116407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-2917664560180411432014-09-30T20:33:00.460+01:002014-09-30T20:33:00.460+01:00That's utterly shite, I genuinely feel for you...That's utterly shite, I genuinely feel for you. Sending good wishes your way xxmaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11348603762006704404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-30264463418587945142014-09-30T10:29:52.578+01:002014-09-30T10:29:52.578+01:00That's so shite. So sad to hear your news. It ...That's so shite. So sad to hear your news. It is a grieving process, so take your time and do what you need to do to get through it. big hug.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-72317499386847948022014-09-30T00:34:55.396+01:002014-09-30T00:34:55.396+01:00Oh sweetie, I wish I knew what to say, I really do...Oh sweetie, I wish I knew what to say, I really do. Sending you lots of big hugs right now. Make sure to look after your self xxRachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17128754833604987577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-8751080569820188652014-09-29T19:19:04.080+01:002014-09-29T19:19:04.080+01:00I'm so so sorry to read this. I'm so sad f...I'm so so sorry to read this. I'm so sad for you. Sending all my love to you xxxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00989442745796619083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-29129505741059475852014-09-29T14:54:37.516+01:002014-09-29T14:54:37.516+01:00It hurt me to read this, so I can't imagine ho...It hurt me to read this, so I can't imagine how you're feeling. Incredibly brave of you to write about it, though, I'm not sure I could have done after my last break-up. As people have said above, I just wish there was something I could do! Just know people are thinking of you, and here when you need them.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01938795597710748712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-61013080292101362372014-09-29T07:43:44.260+01:002014-09-29T07:43:44.260+01:00Oh my goodness. What a truly appalling way to be t...Oh my goodness. What a truly appalling way to be treated. I'm so sorry that this has happened. Jennifer is right, it'll be hard work but you'll get through this, little by little, one day at a time. Be sure to take your time but more importantly take care of yourself.<br />Fill those drawers, those photo frames and do whatever it takes to make yourself feel whole again.<br />Thinking of you and sending you good vibes xHazelxJoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05438389465030714608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-12283733851433210392014-09-29T00:29:25.293+01:002014-09-29T00:29:25.293+01:00Oh no!! This was horrible to read and I am so sorr...Oh no!! This was horrible to read and I am so sorry this has happened and you're going through this. A good amount of this registered with me - how long my ex was in my life as my friend and then my best friend, and then the negative feelings I had towards a city I loved with all my heart; Manchester! The worst part in all this is the shear amount of betrayal and the complete lack of answers! I feel pretty effing angry on your behalf!! <br /><br />As for advice: it's going to be shit, I'm sure you know this. How to deal with that shitiness? Let yourself feel all of the emotions that arrive; angry, sad, upset, miserable, depressed, triumphant (but not too much that you rebound like I did). Do not bottle those feelings up. Do not tell yourself you shouldn't feel them, or that you constantly look on the bright side, or that you should pick yourself and pretend like nothing's happened. Something's happened and you need to permit yourself to react to it. Otherwise, 6 months, a year down the line, you'll actually have depression. Get an activity, or continue to do one that you love. Physical exercise is particularly good. Alcohol is not.<br /><br />That all sounds pretty negative but hopefully you perhaps know me a little to know that I'm not one to polish a turd. But the other thing I can say is that you will be alright. At some point, you will get through a whole hour without thinking of what's happened. Or thinking of him. Then it will be an entire day. And at some point you will find you might wonder what he's doing now, and in the same minute, that thought passes.<br /><br />I am thinking of you and can offer uber negative advice whenever you need it.<br /><br />JAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01363295171683526903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-23750772191741763062014-09-28T20:58:52.911+01:002014-09-28T20:58:52.911+01:00I am sending you so much love, i there is anything...I am sending you so much love, i there is anything I can do, or if you want to escape to Cheltenham for a bit, let me know.<br /><br />Maria xxxMaria Fallonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04353549332327912208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-66813856642446056392014-09-28T20:26:35.355+01:002014-09-28T20:26:35.355+01:00Well, that really sucks. This was heart-breaking t...Well, that really sucks. This was heart-breaking to read but the entry is well-composed and hits a hard impact on me, even as a quiet bystander. I almost believed that if I didn't read the rest or if I skipped to the end that it might not be true, alas. The bits about people going about their daily lives while your daily life as you knew it is gone really struck a chord and empathy pours - I am in shock and so sad for you, I can't even imagine the extent to which you are feeling stuff. Flitterbeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17245078798373902528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-85563403532769764162014-09-28T20:21:32.003+01:002014-09-28T20:21:32.003+01:00How utterly shit. Much love to you xxxHow utterly shit. Much love to you xxxClairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07303134963429728928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-89699101215364072952014-09-28T20:11:34.878+01:002014-09-28T20:11:34.878+01:00It broke my heart to see your tweet two weeks ago ...It broke my heart to see your tweet two weeks ago and it broke again reading this. What a horrible, shitty, unfair thing to happen; the audacity of his actions takes my breath away. Sending you lots of hugs xjbistheinitialhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17868282285690501258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-71640887215723448782014-09-28T18:25:36.618+01:002014-09-28T18:25:36.618+01:00I have read your blog for some time now and I too ...I have read your blog for some time now and I too found this difficult to read. You have always seemed so confident in your posts and I hope you can take some strength from this. This is not an easy time and I wanted to wish you love x fishbulbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16007042313866116123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-17702946525791208702014-09-28T18:12:32.051+01:002014-09-28T18:12:32.051+01:00Poor poorhouse I felt for you so much when reading...Poor poorhouse I felt for you so much when reading this, and I can't really say anything to help. Get through each day at a time, keep active even if youmdontmwant to, then one day you will realise you haven't cried, and things will get better. This is what my mum told me when I recently got broken up with. It's just shitty. Lots of love.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05660570156045096961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-40765216976122785272014-09-28T17:26:31.959+01:002014-09-28T17:26:31.959+01:00This was painful to read. Im so sorry. I wish I co...This was painful to read. Im so sorry. I wish I could offer you some words of wisdom but I have none.<br />Just look after yourself and grieve at your own pace. Time heals, but unfortunately you cannot brew a cup of time.<br />Take care.Helenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03957101644188461674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530190092034193112.post-48346415249684397902014-09-28T16:11:43.729+01:002014-09-28T16:11:43.729+01:00Oh goodness!!! That is just horrible and I really ...Oh goodness!!! That is just horrible and I really wish I could say something helpful. Please know that I care and am thinking of you, even if I can say nothing. <br />I cannot imagine how you are feeling. My ex boyfriend broke up with me suddenly after maintaining our relationship through my studying abroad for a year, and I remember finding it inconceivable that he reached that decision without saying a thing to me until he wanted to split up but that whole thing was on such a small scale compared to your situation. Sending you many hugs. Z Kezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15705356707599121605noreply@blogger.com